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random ranting - nobody seems to care nobody ever learns. [May. 25th, 2009|05:42 pm]
explodeinsmiles
[Current Location |living room]
[mood |bothered]
[music |motion city soundtrack]

first of all, it takes job history to get a mortgage. you can't have a job for two weeks and hope they'll approve you.

if someone you know owns something nice, don't ruin it. and if that nice something is a couch, DON'T plop on it relentlessly.

when you owe someone money, pay them expressly. but also don't expect someone to pay you for things that they aren't going to use.

mainly, just treat people in a way that you would like them to treat you because when you don't it makes them angry and resentful.

i don't care if you sit around all day, whatever you wanna do is your choice but if you make a mess CLEAN it!
and if the dishes in the dishwasher are dirty, PUT YOUR DIRTY DISHES IN IT!

i own nice things, and i don't care if you use them. but if you are going to use them treat them like you would treat your own...

and by the way, we only have 3 of our 8 glasses left now.
ARG!
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marriage [Aug. 3rd, 2008|08:53 am]
explodeinsmiles
being married is something no one can explain.
i'm sure for some it's terrible
and for some it is more than perfect.
sometimes you fight and sometimes you get along just wonderfully
but in the end it's alright as long as there is love.
because love is what keeps the relationship together
knowing that you vowed to be with the person forever
with perseverance two people can make it through anything.

i'm glad i have my husband.
because he keeps me going.
he's my dream between sleeping.
and i wouldn't trade that for anything.
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love personified [Dec. 11th, 2007|08:15 pm]
explodeinsmiles
[mood |happyhappy]

when i first thought about love and was considering if loved someone or not i thought i knew what love was.
now, looking back, i was SO wrong about what i thought love was.
i didn't know love until i met the man i am marrying in 31 days.
brandon christopher reich is the definition of love to me.
he is there for me... my best friend... my love... my companion.
i have no fear of getting married to him...no worries, no regrets.
he is the man who makes me laugh, makes me smile, makes me speechless...
...the sweetest, most thoughtful, and most caring man i've ever met in my life.

I can't wait for our lives to begin together.
Once it begins it will never end.
I can't stop imagining our wedding day and what it'll be like.
He'll be the only thing I see...the only one who matters on that day.

I love him so much.
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perfect. [Oct. 21st, 2007|11:00 pm]
explodeinsmiles
[mood |happyhappy]

what a wonderful man.

"I'm crazy about fall, meteor showers, old school punk, and black and white photography... But my love for you is as sane and real as it comes."

"...is thinking he'd rather love Eden for one day than anyone else for a lifetime."

i never want to be without him.
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i mean it when i tell you that i need you [Sep. 23rd, 2007|04:36 pm]
explodeinsmiles
[mood |happyhappy]

eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:32:28 PM)
because while i won't tell the whole load of details to just anyone, you i can.

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:32:43 PM)
im glad im that person for you

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:33:02 PM)
mainly cause i've never felt as though you'd judge me for things that i do

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:33:09 PM)
im super lucky to have you as a friend.   i dont know anyone else you would have put up with me this long

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:33:15 PM)
:)

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:33:36 PM)
its a pretty good combo you and me

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:33:44 PM)
i tend to push and you just hold on

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:33:49 PM)
heh

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:34:15 PM)
it works

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:34:21 PM)
okay, now i need to iron or i will be late

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:34:27 PM)
alright

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:34:31 PM)
have a goooood night at work :)

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:34:46 PM)
haha.  an attempt will be made

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:34:58 PM)
give it your best shot ;)

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:35:09 PM)
i seriosuly will try

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:35:20 PM)
have a good nights being all pretty glowly happy

.eden. [you are weathered and worn.] says: (4:35:27 PM)
:) bye best friend!

tricia :: your heart felt good, it was dripping pitch and made of wood says: (4:35:37 PM)
byebyes bestest friend of entire life
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A girl just fell from the sky, boss! [Aug. 27th, 2007|10:28 pm]
explodeinsmiles
ME: (9:51:10 PM) we've been talking for a week now
ME: (9:52:13 PM) pretty sure more than a couple hours every day too
HE: (9:54:04 PM) yea definatly
HE: (9:54:11 PM) like 6 hours that one day lol
ME: (9:54:13 PM) yeah
ME: (9:54:34 PM) and it was never like what should we talk about?
ME: (9:55:07 PM) which is amazing.
HE: (9:55:20 PM) yea definatly..
HE: (9:55:22 PM) So...
HE: (9:55:27 PM) what should we talk about?
ME: (9:55:29 PM) :P
HE: (9:55:29 PM) ;)
HE: (9:55:30 PM) lol
ME: (9:55:35 PM) oh ha...ha...
ME: (9:57:03 PM) you're soooooo funny :P
HE: (9:58:16 PM) Hahaha
HE: (9:58:25 PM) I Want you to be mine.
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like, infatuation, love [Aug. 25th, 2006|09:17 pm]
explodeinsmiles
[Current Location |kitchen]
[mood |bouncybouncy]
[music |of montreal - so begins our alabee]

there's one thing i've never been clear on
i understand the whole concept of loving someone
what i never knew was how to tell between liking and infatuation.

you just meet someone, you find out a lot about them
you like what you find out, and you think they're way cool.
but you're infatuated right?

because if you haven't known them long, there isn't enough information to base your opinion of liking them on.
how do you know that there are things about them that you may not like?
you're just not aware of them yet possibly.

like: to regard with favor; have a kindly or friendly feeling for; find attractive
infatuation: a foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction.
yet the synonym is love.
i thought they were different.

love: to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).

they both have to do with passion.
infatuation is an extravagant passion.
one that is without reason or is thought to be something it really isn't.

love is different.
passionate affection... affection: fond attachment, devotion
passionate attraction... attraction: fascination; allurement; enticement

love is being devoted.
infatuation is being enticed.

love is for the long run.

glad we got that figured out.
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